Yeah, tell me about it. The sounds of the streets here in NY aren't as nice as you're stating.
Anyway, no one should demand anyone to be "good". First, because all people have different meanings and opinions on what's good or bad. For a serial killer, killing is good.
And second, welcome to the Internet, where any weak statements are assassinated and tortured slowly and mercyless . You're in a Internet Forum. You should know better. Warbrain's comment was actually pretty suave in comparisson with the usual.
In real life, we don't require to think so much about what words we use to express our feelings because of our facial expressions, tone of voice and body language.
But here in the Internet forums is very different. The closest we get is emoticons.
More thought is required to expose our points in a more effective way that won't be misunderstood by anyone. Those that don't really think about their words get flamed right away.
Anyway, what causes most "fights" and arguments in forums is the reaction that people have towards flaming. Most people take it extremely personal and get very upset and emotional. And that ruins everything. At least that's what I think.
Anyway, I'm drifting off topic now and I feel like I can publish a book by how long this post is, and can be .
Peace out, brothers and sisters.